Four Lessons for ALL from the Irish Referendum

A couple of weeks ago, the Irish people held a referendum to legalize abortion and unless you have been living under a rock you know the abortion side won in a landslide gaining over 66% of the vote. Regardless of your feelings and opinions on abortion, (I am Irish man and I am proud to have voted to say ALL life matters and should be defended), there are several lessons we can learn from this referendum and specifically from the abortion side.

Winning the Argument

Today’s political climate around the world is all about winning elections, gaining power and based largely on little actual substance but on the “fact” we are better than the other party. America will experience this over the coming months where the discussion seems to be about whether there will be a blue wave or if the GOP will hold onto the House and Senate – but how many issues will actually be discussed about the future of the nation? Will the Constitution be discussed? Will liberty and why America is different? Or will it be based on you cannot let the other “side” have power?

The sad truth about the Irish abortion referendum was the result was never really in doubt and was always seen as more of a formality. The only questions were how many people would actually vote and the margin of victory. Why? Because whether they knew it or not, the abortion side followed the advice Margaret Thatcher gave several decades ago:

First, you win the argument, then you win the election.

The proof of this is the exit poll conducted on the day where 75% of people said they always knew how they were going to vote.

Over the years Ireland (like many parts of the world) have accepted abortion as part of our everyday lives. We think of abortion as a choice and we know life is filled with choices. Should I go out with my friends next Saturday night, should I order dessert, should I leave my job or not, should I keep my baby or not?

The ironic part of those who are pro-choice is so few realize their own double standards as 99% of them love telling people how much money of their own you are allowed to keep, what car you can drive, how fast you can drive it, dictating what you can buy and when you can buy it, deciding your employment terms etc.).

No Science / Emotion

The second successful step to acceptance of abortion was the complete removal of both science and emotion from the subject. If you read any literature about abortion, you will rarely (if ever) see the word baby. A baby is gorgeous, sweet, needs a name, requires lots of love and attention and is totally defenseless. The pro-choice side successfully changed it to a fetus which is a group of cells which could turn into anything. Is a group of cells gorgeous or sweet, do you name it, and does it require any love?

The third step has been the successful creation of the narrative around abortion. It is a choice, it is the caring and compassionate choice for women – after all, it is her body and she can do whatever she wants with her body. If you dare disagree with this narrative, you are deemed anti-choice, a hater and oppressor of women.

Chosen Ignorance

The last step to winning this argument has been chosen ignorance. Have you ever watched an abortion? Did you watch till the end or did you switch it off? Have you ever tried showing or explaining what happens during an abortion to people? If you have, how far did you get?

  • Did you get to explain how they remove the limbs from the baby?
  • Did you get to explain how they break the babies neck?
  • Did you get to explain what they do with the baby parts in America?
  • Did you get to explain we are now using abortion as a way to “solve” down syndrome?

Or did you get the common reaction, STOP, enough I do not want to hear/see anymore? Discussing abortion is hard because it requires people to self-reflect, witness pure evil, do their own homework and then requires them to act. However, if you are ignorant, you don’t have to self-reflect, witness evil, or act and you can go on living your life.


The second thing everyone can learn from the Irish referendum is how critical your creditability is in society. Ireland has historically been a Catholic country but over the last few decades that has been changing. It is easy to blame the media and the spread of secularism for this change. The truth is the Catholic Church is also directly responsible for losing its creditability to many people because of their own actions/inactions.

When priests do inhumane and barbaric things to young boys, when the Church covers that evil up, and never really has come out in the strongest possible terms to condemn those actions and FIRE each of those priests, how is it possible to have any creditability in society. Why would anyone ever listen to you?

Now if you add in a media that flat out hate religion, and declining numbers of those who are actually Catholic, you find a perfect storm of why the Church has so little impact in Ireland today.

Churches Impact

One of the biggest differences historically between the Church in America and the rest of the world has been the role of your pulpits. When the Church is at its best, its pulpits are alive, filled with passion and inspiring a generation to be better. The American Revolution may factually have started in 1776, but the truth is it started 20/30/40 years prior with your pulpits spreading the laws of nature that were self-evident for all to see.

The sad truth is the pulpits in Ireland are either silent or are spreading modern day talking points. I grew up a Catholic and I do not remember a time when they were alive. I grew up in a Church where the sermon was not judged by its content or topic, but rather by the length. I have seen first-hand people go crazy when a priest talks for more than 10 minutes during a sermon. I have seen first-hand people switch off during sermons and treat it as an opportunity to read the newsletter.

Full disclosure I have done this many times myself as I have sat thru sermons explaining was Jesus was a socialist, how Israel is the problem, and how global warming is going to kill us all. I even started a discussion a few years ago as I walked out of Church on Christmas day three words into a sermon – those three words were Jesus the Palestinian.

Churches in Ireland have major problems with attendance. In the same exit poll only 30% said they attended Church every week, 14% once a month and 27% a couple of times a year. Of those questioned 74% were Catholics.

I know some people who long for the Church of Ireland fifty years ago, a time when the priest ruled with an Iron fist and called people out by name from the pulpits on a Sunday. Yet did Jesus rule by an Iron fist or did he inspire and lift people up?


Since the result, there has been much analysis in Ireland about what this means and a popular conclusion is Ireland has filed for divorce from the Catholic Church. For many living in society today, they see life as a religious issue. IT IS NOT. Religion does not own life. It is not even a left / right issue. Life is a HUMAN ISSUE.

In a world of partisan politics, life should be the one issue we can all come together on, that life has meaning and is valuable. Does it really matter if God, religion, Allah, logic, common sense got you to that point of view? Would it matter if someone said a rock told them that? No, because life used to be a self-evident truth.


Our actions or inactions right now will determine the world we live in and the one we pass onto the next generation. I know many want to think this world is doomed and that freedom is dead. While true for nations like Ireland and Europe – we know nothing but the tyranny of man’s law. That is not the case for America. The track record of America is making the impossible, possible. America has the map that leads to success, you just need to follow it again. So what is that map?

It is thru your Churches, families, communities, and schools sharing the message that your founders shared over 250 years ago based around the laws of nature and natures God and those principles are the same for everyone. While elections hold an important place in society, it is critical to focus our time on winning the argument explaining why America is different from the rest of the world, why you are exceptional, why your nation has prospered like no other nation in the history of the world and why simply leaving people alone and not taking their stuff is such a wonderful and simple idea.

We also must do everything we can to be people of good character and do nothing that can damage our creditability. This is true for everyone in society and not just those in power. We must understand that your founders were ahead of their time when they placed a special emphasis as they pledged their lives, fortunes, and SACRED honor to each other when they signed the Declaration of Independence.

If we follow that roadmap, combined with the advancements of society including technology, we really can live in a society that enjoys more freedom than even your founders could have ever envisioned.

One thought on “Four Lessons for ALL from the Irish Referendum

  1. Like you, having your dream to come here to the US, we have always thought how great it would be ourselves to go back to our roots in Ireland..a more simple, we thought, place…where morals and values were still held sacrosanct, the family important, children born and unborn still cherished…
    See, here in the US, people are not informed, and many still think of Ireland as an idyllic, safe, homey-feel place, still mostly Catholic, at least still Christian….but, some of us have heard differently and truthfully from you- who wants to get out of there!! You have said it has become a socialist, pretty “uncomfortable” country, freedom-wise.
    That was hard enough to digest, but you live there- and would not have said otherwise, if it weren’t so!
    And now again we find out, which has become world news, shattering our sweet thoughts of our ancestors’ homeland, that the kind of huge majority of Ireland decided recently to join the sick forces of the world, including the US for 45+ years, regarding accepting abortion.
    The grass seems to be never actually greener on the other side- we can’t be dreamy-eyed thinking so…we have to bloom where we are planted it seems and try to bring back decency and common sense where there is still a chance, no matter where we are.
    The young are rudderless…the old are tired…in all of the world’s countries, it keeps finding us sort of “shocked” by the slip-sliding of liberties, an abandonment of faith, and then an ensuing non-chalant acceptance of mediocrity and all things not “Godly”.
    Let’s see who is left to find the courage to step up and keep fighting for goodness, and let’s hope we can EVEN still pray that they/you/we will. Thank you for your continued inspiration:)

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